Feb 2, 2012
Its Just the Beginning…
This is my first post as Mrs.Debdatta Dasgupta Sahay and this is going to be a story about how a Bengali family from Kolkata,West Bengal and a Bihari family from Bhagalpur, Bihar came to be associated together. Amazingly enough, the story begins neither in Kolkata nor in Bhagalpur. The story begins when I, Debdatta Dasgupta, met ‘Nishant Sahay’ at St.Joseph’s College, North Point,... read more
Nov 24, 2011
The Ghost’s Musical Saga
I was enjoying the time. A handful of spirits that I had been able to harness and train them to do all my errands. They used to do every household chores, from cleaning the floor & making the bed. Washing the clothes with immaculate cleanliness, though it consummated a lot of their valuable time. But I was vey particular on cleanliness. Be it my drawing room or my clothes. Any visitor to my... read more
Nov 13, 2011
Mannu and Shabbo and The Two Extra Hours
This is the beginning of a new era, for a bristling youth from the most interiors of village land. First day of College in Delhi, and lo, straight fell for a girl, of his class. First thought that crossed his mind: “Ibb yaa sursari mannu ghaas waas daallagi ke nai, hai main mar jaanvaa gud khaa ke.” ( will this girl be my beloved, I would die, if I don’t get her.) Looks at his... read more
Oct 30, 2011
An Extra love :D :D
Image courtesy: Google As I am writing this post, I am not even sure if this is a subject welcome on a page where people talk about love and marriage. But the reality is that the topic I am writing about has very much become a part of lot of relationships. I was in college when I encountered this kind of a situation for the first time. A very close friend of mine did not come for classes for... read more
Oct 27, 2011
Autobiography of Hair
This dates back to the 1960’s and seventeenth of January of nineteen sixty four to be exact, the sovereign ground had arisen, from the oblivion, into this grueling universe, upon which I had to lead my entire life. I opened my eyes, gracefully to the beauty of the world. My master was hollering and crying incessantly. I could smell distinctly, the wild, exotic... read more
Sep 29, 2011
Short love Affair, and rare love letters written by Abraham Lincoln.
These are the excerpts of Love letters written by Abraham Lincoln. Failed Affair of a great man. But the poise and richness of heart is really admirable. real worth reads. These letters have been taken by me from this site. http://www.classicreader.com/ Written To MISS MARY S. OWENS. SPRINGFIELD, May 7, 1837. FRIEND MARY:–I have commenced two letters to send you before... read more
Sep 25, 2011
Hopelessly Optimistic…
When I decided to join Marriage Book, the first thought that came to my mind was if it is open only to married people. I thought I’d confirm it with Pramodji. Then I brushed aside the thought because ‘marriage’ is one topic that anyone can write about- married, unmarried, committed, never committed, non-committal and the list goes on. So how could I be left behind? I currently belong to the... read more
Sep 17, 2011
Woes of Fathers of over-aged Bachelors
It happened just today. Two worried fathers had come to my shop and were talking among themselves. I overheard them and found it related to marriage, so instantly I set off to write , lest I forget something they said. Prudent one began :” No father of a girl turns up in this village, looking for a match for their girl, All head off straight to the Metro’s.” The more Prudent One :... read more
Sep 17, 2011
Two Decades of Togetherness
Basically i was inspired to share my marriage journey by Pramod’s Marriage Book. How to pull off the long journey of two decades of marriage with my better half Vasanthi was the key question ? I thought why not link it to our various trips that we have undertaken right from marriage days on august 23rd ( 1991 ) Wedding Portrait With Sister and... read more
Sep 15, 2011
The Proposal
The actual post is published on my blog Just like that… I found it so relevant to the theme of this website that could not stop myself from re-publishing it here. Hope you enjoy reading it as much as I did while writing it. —————————– Time: 8 PM Date: 20th Jan 2008 I called Gathaa to check my luck, praying to the God that she had not... read more
Sep 14, 2011
Wedding Invitation
While flipping through my older mails, I just came across my wedding invitation and found it worth to share with you all. So here it is… I had tried to be as creative as possible (after all it was my first marriage LOL) and the result was not bad:). Invitation Bachelors should be heavily taxed. It is not fair that some men should be happier than others. Unknown Before marriage, a man yearns for... read more
Sep 14, 2011
Marriages happen in heaven…
After all fourteen years is not a small period; and breaking-up from a serious love affair after this duration seriously leaves you tore into pieces. I used to spend my entire day and night crying and cursing my fate; hoping I could go back in time and change the entire thing. But it was not to happen. My childhood love had suddenly left me without any explanation and chose to spend her life with someone... read more
Sep 13, 2011
A Train Ticket to Love :) :)
My mom never seemed to mind the distance I was from home, because she would just pick up the phone and order me to come home whenever she missed me. This time again she did the same and I was very angry not only because I would have to sweet talk my boss but also travel by train because last minute flights in India are very very expensive Thankfully I got the train tickets. Got off... read more
Sep 12, 2011
“Where are you going?” and Other Difficult Questions
“Where are you going?”, asked my wife. To Hell, I thought to myself. “Out”, I said. I had just gotten up off the bed and was walking toward the door. I had my arm extended towards the door handle when she asked me the question. It was around 11PM at night. I hate being asked where I am going. Even as a teenager I would be very annoyed with my parents if they ever asked me what my... read more
Sep 5, 2011
Managing kids
I suddenly came across this old pic, and marvel the patience my dear beloved had in upbringing the kids. read more
Jul 30, 2011
Being possessive
I have seen once marriage is solemnized, possessiveness sets in. Even starts from engagement day. Recent Anoushka Sharma break up of friendship due to Ranbir’s closeness to Sonakshi. All broadminded outlook is for preaching only. We all have to grow up in attitude too, and learn to be more... read more
Jul 28, 2011
Who loses the most?
I and my wife always have this argument as to who loses the most in the marriage; in the terms who faces most changes in their lives. Obviously, she always argues that the females always lose the most and compared to them; the guys do not face any changes at all. Naturally, I take the guy’s sides with my arguments. Somethings that she mentions are: Change of home, friends, lifestyle At times need to... read more

